August 4, 2008

Blessed

As the father of a two year old, I am constantly amazed at some of the things she does or what comes out of her mouth.  I shouldn’t be.   Her ever-expanding brain has gone into overdrive and she is now able to express herself verbally.  During the first two years of her life, you could watch her process everything that she saw, tasted, and heard.  Now she is able to use those experiences to communicate with us.  Sometimes its a good thing.  Other times you want to run for the hills, especially during the fits.

But today, today was something special.  Today she touched the inner most part of our hearts.  At the young age of two, she can be quite the cutie.  She can be a terror too, but for the most part cute reigns supreme.

I live close enough to work that I am able to eat lunch with the wife and kids everyday.  While eating, things were going as they usually do, nothing out of the ordinary.  Then all of a sudden she pats her chests and says “Father, Son, Spirit.”

As Catholics, I like to believe Jocelyn and I have a deep faith.  We make it a point to bring our children to Mass every Sunday.  Our Faith is very important to us and it will be a part of our children’s upbringing.  Just recently Lily has been asking to dip her fingers into the Holy Water font when we enter the Church.  So I pick her up, she dips, and then I trace the Sign of the Cross with her little hand.  We’ve been doing the same routine for the last few weeks and never did it occur to me that it was actually sinking in.  I just thought she was enjoying putting her hand in the water.

But today she proved otherwise.  Today she showed us that all the work we put in as parents surely pays off…when she wants it too.  Clever little girl.

July 30, 2008

How Do I Love Thee? Let Me Count the Ways

Yes, I love my wife.

Yes, I love my kids.

But I must confess.  I have another love.  One which may not compare to the love for my family or my God but love nonetheless.

I must admit, I love baseball.  That’s right, America’s national past-time.  I’ve been a fan for as long as I could remember.  It is my Jerry Maguire.  Baseball “had me at hello.”

I remember my then ninety year old great grandfather, “Pop,” chanting “Let’s Go Mets!  Let’s Go Mets!”  He didn’t just do this around family, but rather would take daily walks around his New York neighborhood and into the local McDonald’s chanting those three little words throughout.  To me, those three little words were the beginning of a life long love affair.  Because I was born in the area and adored my Pop endlessly, I became a Mets fan.  Yup, a little hat-wearing, glove-bearing Bambino of a Mets fan.

My infatuation with the Mets lasted but a few years since South Florida, where I grew up, received their own Major League team.  At 11 years old, I quickly became a Florida Marlins fan which I have remained ever since.  Through the years, I watched many games on TV, bought a few “authentic” caps, and went to the stadium numerous times to watch the team play.

But then something unspeakable happened. I moved away to college. No longer was I a hop, skip, and a jump away from catching my favorite players play my favorite game. I never lost interest but I knew my love for the team and the game could never be the same. There I was, a rapid, fire-breathing baseball fan, living in a city known for their spectacular college football team (Go Gators!)

Funny how things change. When the idea came up that we should spend our vacation down in South Florida, what was the first thing I did? I checked the Marlins’ schedule of course. I was determined to go to a game and bring my wife with me since she never had the good fortune to experience such a wonderful event. So we went, on our anniversary in fact.  It had been nine years since I last went to a Marlins game.  George W. Bush was just barely running for the Presidency at the time.

And we had fun!  The Marlins lost but we had fun.

You hear (well, I do) stories where people start with “I remember when my father took me to a baseball game.”  I actually do remember going with my Dad and will hopefully do so forever.  Now its my turn.  I can introduce my children to the greatness of baseball.  Who says girls can’t enjoy a good ball game?  They might be a bit young at the moment, but they could grow to love it.

So we took our littlest Fussbucket to the game with us.

We left the bigger one at home.  She might have been a little too hard to handle while trying to enjoy the game.  Plus, when you’re sitting with thousands of other fans, no one really cares to be disturbed by a screaming, toddling two year old.  Granted, a good portion of those people were probably intoxicated but we left her home just to be safe.

I took everything in.  The bright lights, the smell of the freshly cut grass, the sounds of cheering fans, and the tastes of an overpriced hot dog and nachos.  I loved every moment of it.  My love affair with baseball was back.  Even my non-baseball loving wife enjoyed the festivities.

Now, I’ve probably written far too much about baseball than you care to read. But I cannot help it.  It is truly my favorite past-time.  One that can be enjoyed by the whole family.  That is unless you have a Fussbucket.  Use your own judgement as whether to bring them or not.

July 28, 2008

The Return

So yes, we are back.  Back from a long week full of relaxation, fun, and as always, a little Fussbucket hairiness.  We accomplished just about everything we set forth to do.

We went to the beach, twice.  We played mini-golf and laser tag (which I won).  We went to Florida’s largest retail & entertainment center, Sawgrass Mills.  We even went to a Florida Marlins game; something I haven’t done in nine years.  To sum it up, we had bundles of fun.  More on those activities in subsequent posts.

One of the highlights of our trip will be dubbed “The Night.”

Our third wedding anniversary was last week so we went to a very nice steakhouse.  Maybe you heard of it, Morton’s.  Now, I’m not a big steak fan as opposed to my wife who would take it intravenously if she could.  But every now and again when we are fortunate to visit such a fine establishment, I take a chance and order a steak.  Morton’s did not disappoint.  Their Cajun Ribeye masterfully orchestrated a symphony in my mouth. I must mention that prior to my feast d’cow, I had the best crab cake I have ever laid my mouth on.  I do have soft spot for crab cakes and this one was simply perfect.

To cap off our scrumptious anniversary dinner, we dared to try Morton’s Chocolate Velvet Cake.  One bite of this rich, chocolate, liqueur-filled dessert and you’ll soon find yourself with a set of wings hovering just slightly above your seat.  What a dinner to celebrate our anniversary.

After dinner, the wife and I were able to prolong our night away from the children (though we missed them tremendously) and watched The Dark Knight.  Wow, what a movie.  If you haven’t seen it, go.  Go now!  But nothing, just go.

Who knew dinner and a movie could be that good?

“The Night,” that night will be remembered forever.

OK, maybe not forever; you get the point.  It was fun and that’s all I’ve got to say about that.

July 27, 2008

The Circus is Back in Town

We just got back from our vacation.

Too exhausted to write.

Will update tomorrow.

Computer went on fritz while away so that’s why no updates until now.

More to come…

July 18, 2008

Vacation Here We Come

Time to pack the car and head on out the door.  Yes, off we go.

A four and a half hour car ride with two Fussbuckets.  Next stop, the Vacation Station.

I should have internet and plan to post while we are down there.

I leave you with this:

July 17, 2008

And Away We Go

Sometimes you just want to get away.  And that’s exactly what we’re going to do.  Yep, our little family is taking a vacation.  Where might you ask?  To beautiful sunny South Florida. With it’s towering palm trees, sand-filled beaches, and afternoon torrential downpours, how could anyone not want to visit this delicious slice of paradise pie?

Well, initially we didn’t.  It wasn’t our first choice, second or even third.  For our upcoming third wedding anniversary, I began to plan a nice week-long trip to historical Charleston, South Carolina.  We’ve always wanted to visit there and now seemed like the perfect time.  Just one little problem.  Empty wallets.  We are certainly not immune to the economic downturn our country is unfortunately experiencing.

So we decided to make the trip as cheap as possible.  And how exactly are we planning to do that you might ask. Well, we are staying with family.  No hotel expenses necessary and we may even get a night or two of having a free babysitter.  One could only hope.

Many tourists trek to South Florida to see the wonderful sights of Miami, Fort Lauderdale, and the Palm Beaches.  For Jocelyn and me, well, its where we grew up.  Nothing new there for us.  But we’re going to make it as fun and exciting as possible.  The area has a plethora (don’t you just love that word) of stuff to do and we plan to be pretty busy.  Whether its bumming at the beach, bringing the kids to the zoo, or taking Jocelyn to her first ever baseball game, we’re going to do it.

We don’t usually get to do much when we visited because we’re there for family.  But this time is different.  We are determined.  We are excited.  So starting this weekend, we will have fun!

July 16, 2008

Southern Fried Fussbucket Fun

Wow! It has been a little while since I last posted.  Where has the time gone?  I’ve been meaning to write but every time I sat down to create a literary masterpiece, something came up.  Have no fear.  I’m going full throttle on the blogging.

What have we been up to?  Well, take a look…

We headed south to visit our families to take part in some big celebrations for our tykes.  First up was Mary’s Baptism which we did on July 4th.  While other people were patriotically and dutifully filling our skies with colorful gun powder and ash, we were ushering our littlest Fussbucket into the waters of re-birth.

Not only is the Fourth extra cool because it celebrates our country’s independence (remember, I am a wannabe history buff) and extra special because we baptized our little girl, but it is also the day I proposed to Jocelyn (who obviously said yes, but only after a long, heart-wrenching, speechless pause) four years ago.

*This was taken seconds before I proposed.

The day after Mary’s Baptism, we celebrated Lily turning two.  That sure was fun.  Really, it was.  Besides having to spend a fortune to create a perfect Curious George themed party, fun was had by all.  I think. I hope.

Lily definitely enjoyed the festivities…

Other than constructing the perfect, Fussbucket-approved birthday celebration, we, of course, had to give her the best gift.  As parents, we definitely did not want to be outdone by all those other gifts.  Though the others certainly were great.  They just weren’t ours.

We were worried for a bit, continually questioning our decision to withhold our prized present until the end.

But…

We won!

In military strategy, there is a tactic known as Shock and Awe.  Well, I like to call this the Shock and Ooh face.

Priceless.

One weekend + Two Fussbuckets + Lots of smiles and gifts = One Proud Papa.

June 28, 2008

A Fussbucket Turns Two!

Lil’ Miss Lily turned two today.  The big two.  The terrible two.  The two that makes parents want to gauge their own eyes out and clog their eardrums.

Lily is quite an easy child to please.  No big cake, no stacks of fancily wrapped presents, no party favors or hats.  Just give her a cupcake and a balloon.  You know, the simple things in life.

She’ll have all the hoopla next week when the whole family gets together to celebrate.

For us parents, the “fun” now begins.

On a serious note, I truly can’t believe its been two years since I held our sweet little girl for the first time. A moment I’ll never forget and will remember always.

Happy Birthday Lily.

June 25, 2008

Introducing Fussbucket Version 4.0

Behold the Fussbucket know as Mary.  Mary has just turned four months and is already quite the Daddy’s girl.

Looks out folks.  She coos. She smiles. She holds up her head. And yes, she can spew regurgitated breast milk far distances.

She is…a Fussbucket.

June 18, 2008

Triumphant

OK, not really, but I did get closer to my goal.  That’s right, I finished a book.  And its not even the end of the month.  Yup, I owned the pages of 1776 and victory was surely mine.

Woot woot! Or what the kids are saying these days.

I am a master reader.